Which is easier for you?

Is it easier for you, if a family dies peacefully, or for them to be preparing for it, and you and your other family members can see them getting weaker?

Personally i am going through something in my family
and i can say without a doubt it is so difficult
for someone to give you a time of expectency for a timeline

Depends on how much you like/love him/her, conditions etc. it isn't that simple.

It's never easy. I've had an experience with a sudden death [We were laughing, he had a seizure, three hours later the doctor called] and it was the worst thing ever.

Yeah i know it is never easy...i mean losin someone out of the blue is horrible and not bein able to say wat you wanted

so it seems like you had both sides of it iris

i think its harder when a person dies and their preparing to die ive had it happen to someone very close to me she didnt have to die she commited suicide even though i know its mean to say i hope i never see her again cus thatll mean ive died and gone to hell. thats where suicide leads you so dont do it its coward way out of ur problems i dont understand whats she went through though mabe if i had then it would be easier 4 me 2 undrstand so dont commit suicide because well u die go to hell and leave ur family grieving and confused