wat should i do
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in the las 5-6 months i have been cheated on and stood up by certain girls! wat can i do 2 stop this from happenin me any other relationship because the pain has been unreal

use Viagra!
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all kidding aside, get over it, move on, some women are bitches and will always be bitches. just keep trying til you find the right one. and build up a wall around yourself so you don't fall quickly for next girl who says 'hi' to you. dont let yourself get close until you're 150% sure.
and trust me, i'm married now, 2 awesome kids, but the girl before my wife was a bad one. was engaged, bought a house, and THEN found out she was cheating on me with her co-worker (a hint: never trust ANY woman that works in a male-dominated factory environment - they're ALL sluts, no exception) I know some people blame themselves and try to fix things, but once a slut, always a slut, so treat her like the bitch she is and kick her to the curb. don't get sad, get MAD! that's my tip for ya.
lol
all kidding aside, get over it, move on, some women are bitches and will always be bitches. just keep trying til you find the right one. and build up a wall around yourself so you don't fall quickly for next girl who says 'hi' to you. dont let yourself get close until you're 150% sure.
and trust me, i'm married now, 2 awesome kids, but the girl before my wife was a bad one. was engaged, bought a house, and THEN found out she was cheating on me with her co-worker (a hint: never trust ANY woman that works in a male-dominated factory environment - they're ALL sluts, no exception) I know some people blame themselves and try to fix things, but once a slut, always a slut, so treat her like the bitch she is and kick her to the curb. don't get sad, get MAD! that's my tip for ya.
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Great stuff, right there. Listen to Prelude.
5-6 months and in this time you've been cheated on and stood up by as many as 'certain' girls? You know there are people with Y-chromosomes lying around, right? You know that not a single one of them is a slut, right, since 'slut' is a noun properly substituted for cheap feminine nouns? NEVER trust a girl unless it's your own daughter, in which case you CANNOT trust the slut who gave birth to her and should cut her off from her daughter by any means necessary! Legally change your daughter's and your own name, skip a country or two, or even call a guy if you need to! Growing in the womb upon start of life and not developing male sexual organs is inexcusable by all social, moral, and spiritual standards!
5-6 months and in this time you've been cheated on and stood up by as many as 'certain' girls? You know there are people with Y-chromosomes lying around, right? You know that not a single one of them is a slut, right, since 'slut' is a noun properly substituted for cheap feminine nouns? NEVER trust a girl unless it's your own daughter, in which case you CANNOT trust the slut who gave birth to her and should cut her off from her daughter by any means necessary! Legally change your daughter's and your own name, skip a country or two, or even call a guy if you need to! Growing in the womb upon start of life and not developing male sexual organs is inexcusable by all social, moral, and spiritual standards!
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get someboady who wont cheat on u
Prelude already said that.
use Viagra!
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loool....
poor jot....i wonder y they would do such a heartless thing -.-
poor jot....i wonder y they would do such a heartless thing -.-
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loool....
poor jot....i wonder y they would do such a heartless thing -.-
The female heart works just the same as the male appendix. Duh. I wonder what the female appendix's function could possibly be..

dude... not all girls are sluts, i know SO many that are really nice, in fact... VERY few are... at least... where i live lol! im not exactly sure what made u feel dat way... maybe u just had REAL bad luck, anyways, if u find the RIGHT girl, then... u can trust them 200% of course the right girl might not be the PERFECT girl, but the RIGHT girl for u, perfection doesnt always mean the best, it usually makes people snobby and stuck up... with a few exception,
Viagra is a bad idea... dont do it lol, they were kidding, anyways, John, what your going to have to realize is MOST of the time, u arent going to find your right girl in 2, 3, 5, maybe 10 relationships, good things require patience and searching, now... it really depends on ur relaionships, sexual ones dont really work out...
if u meet someone, get to know them, never date someone purely on looks... just p[lain stupidity, u'll end up with a broken/scarred heart, connect with them, understand them etc etc etc etc etc....
im bored.... ooo look a squirrel *gets on all fours growls and runs off to chase the squirrel yelling squirel~! at the top of my lungs lol*
and Prelude its not that he opened to little, i thin he might not have opened enough... maybe she felt like he was occupied in something else more important then her, maybe she didnt understand him, maybe whatever! my point is... well... so what if they werent right for u, just move on, lol watch the song "Move Along" lol, it goes well with this paragraph for sum reason lol
Viagra is a bad idea... dont do it lol, they were kidding, anyways, John, what your going to have to realize is MOST of the time, u arent going to find your right girl in 2, 3, 5, maybe 10 relationships, good things require patience and searching, now... it really depends on ur relaionships, sexual ones dont really work out...
if u meet someone, get to know them, never date someone purely on looks... just p[lain stupidity, u'll end up with a broken/scarred heart, connect with them, understand them etc etc etc etc etc....
im bored.... ooo look a squirrel *gets on all fours growls and runs off to chase the squirrel yelling squirel~! at the top of my lungs lol*
and Prelude its not that he opened to little, i thin he might not have opened enough... maybe she felt like he was occupied in something else more important then her, maybe she didnt understand him, maybe whatever! my point is... well... so what if they werent right for u, just move on, lol watch the song "Move Along" lol, it goes well with this paragraph for sum reason lol
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Yama, you are being silly. How much X is in you?

*Ahem*
There are so many things I could say because this thread is so insulting and offensive but I don't wont to get into some stupid argument with some men who have obviously had bad experiences.
All women are not sluts(it's like saying "oh well I've been in an abusive relationship so I now believe that all men are women beating, drunk, lying, man whores who are all going to end up in gaol. That's irrational at best) or that all men are pricks but human beings are arseholes especially in this day and age and you have to learn from your experiences and not let yourself be so vulnerable.
Basically John, don't completely trust anyone from the word go. Let them earn that trust. But also if this keeps happening to you there is obviously a reason for that pattern which you can only figure out yourself. Usually it's if you don't have respect for yourself.
There are so many things I could say because this thread is so insulting and offensive but I don't wont to get into some stupid argument with some men who have obviously had bad experiences.
All women are not sluts(it's like saying "oh well I've been in an abusive relationship so I now believe that all men are women beating, drunk, lying, man whores who are all going to end up in gaol. That's irrational at best) or that all men are pricks but human beings are arseholes especially in this day and age and you have to learn from your experiences and not let yourself be so vulnerable.
Basically John, don't completely trust anyone from the word go. Let them earn that trust. But also if this keeps happening to you there is obviously a reason for that pattern which you can only figure out yourself. Usually it's if you don't have respect for yourself.
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You hurt my feelings, Midnight. Say you're sorry. :(

I hurt your feelings? How? Did you ever consider that perhaps yours and Preludes comment offended me?
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I'm sorry, Midnight. I suppose I didn't consider your point of view. I'll try not to repeat this mistake in the future.

I'm sorry you got offended, but two things can't be properly expressed in text postings: sarcasm, and exaggeration. And I think myself as well as Thillian may have been over-using both of those in this thread. But I do have strong general viewpoints regarding women in a factory environment, as well as women who have cheated on others (once a cheat, always a cheat - applies to both men and women), so if you don't agree with that, not much use arguing about it with a stranger.
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thilian offends a lot of people l8ly so i guess its no surprise he is at it again
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lol u guys are so cute ^^
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thilian offends a lot of people l8ly so i guess its no surprise he is at it again
That is preposterous.
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sorry thilian

I'm sorry you got offended, but two things can't be properly expressed in text postings: sarcasm, and exaggeration. And I think myself as well as Thilian may have been over-using both of those in this thread. But I do have strong general viewpoints regarding women in a factory environment, as well as women who have cheated on others (once a cheat, always a cheat - applies to both men and women), so if you don't agree with that, not much use arguing about it with a stranger.
See usually I can tell when you guys aren't being serious but I couldn't this time. Even so if I could tell I would still be shocked, possibly not as much as I was but still. I think there are certain topics that should only be joked about to an extent and yes I also have strong viewpoints on cheating as well but I still think both comments were quite sexist and unnecessary. Not to mention no indication that it was joking, I'm sure that can't have been useful for someone who was not only asking for advice but doesn't exactly know the people who replied.
Mind you I'm over it now... After all that :) I think I'm in a rambling mood today.
I also have to say usually I don't find both you and Thilian offensive at all (which obviously added to my shock before).

Although I may have incorrectly express my views, the basic 'help' I had for our friend in despair was not cry over it. I've seen too many people get all depressed and even at times suicidal over breakups and/or cheating. And I went thru a real rough patch back in my early 20s after a very bad breakup as well, so i can definitely relate with the post. but I got over it as soon as I develop a 'who cares about that b**ch' attitude towards the ex. and women, you can replace the word b**ch with a**hole for your heartbreaks. basically, life is too short to worry and try to figure out why others are so mean. if they cheat on you, it not YOUR weakness; its the cheater that is weak and selfish and taking the easy way out of a relationship. So i say to hell with them, you still have a long life ahead of you, and there's tons more good people out there. so don't give your ex the satisfaction of seeing you be all hurt over it. I say laugh at them, and go out and have a good rebound fling. and rub it in your ex's face that life is better without them.
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well i wish i could bu my xs mum died and she blamin me of it and wont let it go as well so i dunno yet nd the bitch wont let me see ny1 else till she is better

woah, that's harsh... she cheated on you, dumped you, blames you for her mom's death, AND refuses to let you see others?
man, run. kick her in the head and run for it. most women are angels, but a small percentage are downright certifiable wack-jobs, and from what you're saying, i think she's a lost cause. don't feel guilty, she fucked it up, so dump her for good and move on. cut all ties to her (common friends, co-workers, family that still talk to her... cut it all off)
man, run. kick her in the head and run for it. most women are angels, but a small percentage are downright certifiable wack-jobs, and from what you're saying, i think she's a lost cause. don't feel guilty, she fucked it up, so dump her for good and move on. cut all ties to her (common friends, co-workers, family that still talk to her... cut it all off)
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I also have to say usually I don't find both you and Thilian offensive at all (which obviously added to my shock before).
I apologize again for any unwanted interpretation. The funny thing is, I actually looked deep at Prelude's message when I read it and found quite a lot of advice material. My posts absolutely don't have this. I suppose the succession of posts blends the humor together as well as the stated points.
Prelude: Don't trust cheaters and factory women.
Thilian: Don't trust ............................. women.
Although I may have incorrectly express my views, the basic 'help' I had for our friend in despair was not cry over it. I've seen too many people get all depressed and even at times suicidal over breakups and/or cheating. And I went thru a real rough patch back in my early 20s after a very bad breakup as well, so i can definitely relate with the post. but I got over it as soon as I develop a 'who cares about that b**ch' attitude towards the ex. and women, you can replace the word b**ch with a**hole for your heartbreaks. basically, life is too short to worry and try to figure out why others are so mean. if they cheat on you, it not YOUR weakness; its the cheater that is weak and selfish and taking the easy way out of a relationship. So i say to hell with them, you still have a long life ahead of you, and there's tons more good people out there. so don't give your ex the satisfaction of seeing you be all hurt over it. I say laugh at them, and go out and have a good rebound fling. and rub it in your ex's face that life is better without them.
That is my lifestyle, very unmoving. You have not crying over something, not missing it, not really feeling anything but simply acknowledging fact, and not showing satisfaction a wit. There is little that offends me, because I can debate a topic openly and without anything that would push it into an argument. I have agreements and disagreements, and I too often hear the Texan mindset to possibly afford to be offended by anything I hear. The debates often end quickly for me, because the opposing viewer has to sit down and drink some soup and be pampered after all the stress of being faced with a different ideal. I do feel hate, though. Often, and great as the other common emotions. And longing. But those don't have much company in my cranial fixture.
woah, that's harsh... she cheated on you, dumped you, blames you for her mom's death, AND refuses to let you see others?
I don't care if it's a male derrogative. She's an asshole.
One of my many contested opinions: Death is natural and justified, dying over it is what breaks the balance. Society has many expectations of people. Some of them are to cry over loved ones. If a boy doesn't cry when his mother dies, either the boy is a lost cause as a human being or they murdered her himself. That's the mindset. When my dad died, the one thing I remember was getting a lot of attention from people at school. Teachers and students. I liked that, it made me happy. Then they stopped, just because it wasn't 'necessary' anymore. Before and after had been just as bad. The creme in the middle was fine, absolutely fine. Like that 'Longing' of something, that's for comfort and, when I was younger, attention from anyone. People sentence a kid to death for stating that a child doesn't need a father, if they at least have a father figure. (In my Health class. Bastard told me not to even speak.) I have male figures, my oldest brother and people I know online and role models. My mother's more like a dad would be to me anyway. But now I go to class and the mere sound of my voice aggravates the other children. I don't understand why someone would want to live that way. I mean, other students make much the same comments much the same amount. Is it that I express my opinion more often? That I'm a person, and not just a sheep eating Society's grass? Obviously harsh satire is something that provokes offense, and that actually adds a bit to the humor. But a life isn't lived if you're swallowed in sedentary confinement for the duration. Death's not so sad in comparison to never having lived.
EDIT: Was I making a post on my blog or something? :P
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umm what is this thread about?
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Sexism.