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Urgent Debate about Spanking....

Nozomi_Tenshi 14 years, 7 months ago at Sep 25 19:38 -
Please post your opinions about spanking children...if it was good or not...if you were spanked and how did you turn out. If possible, also references about spanking. Thank you ^_^
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Uber 14 years, 7 months ago at Sep 26 20:46 -
Someone doing a homework topic are we?

I grew up with corporal punishment and I don't think that I turned out too bad.
Personally I don't wrong with it if it's used correctly and proportionately to the offense committed.
Nozomi_Tenshi 14 years, 7 months ago at Sep 28 20:57 -
Lol haha tnx for sharing Uber ^_^ but its kinda too late haha.
I did manage to get full score though

yea i was spanked only when i did things that almost put my life in danger and was told why i was being spanked so i grew up fine...not thinking that my parents were abusive at all as they themselves hated raising their hands against me o.o
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Deleted 14 years, 7 months ago at Sep 29 16:24 -
Definitely shouldn't be done in excess, but there's always a time and a place.
Nozomi_Tenshi 14 years, 7 months ago at Sep 29 19:57 -
But what would you do if our child wouldn't stop misbehaving like inappropriately?
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Deleted 14 years, 7 months ago at Sep 29 20:19 -
But what would you do if our child wouldn't stop misbehaving like inappropriately?

Hey, I appreciate the offer but we barely know each other! ;)

The main issue with me is I would find it very difficult to do, as most parents probably do. But I've seen other kids through all my years of schooling who've been royally screwed up by their parents' denial over them, thinking there's nothing wrong with their child and blaming everyone else for disliking them. So maybe I'd punish my kid in ways I don't foresee... But that's a good amount of time away, so I guess it's all just guesswork at the moment.
Nozomi_Tenshi 14 years, 7 months ago at Oct 2 4:46 -
LOL omg srry typo there XD that was cute though ^_^

hmm it makes sense but in a way....wont that teach the child that wat they did was not really wrong. I mean like if u spank only when reallly necessary then the child might learn that it was inappropriate
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Deleted 14 years, 7 months ago at Oct 4 17:26 -
Good point. I'm going to go catch a flight to some holy Eastern mountain range so I can become a monk and figure out this and other universal questions...
Nozomi_Tenshi 14 years, 7 months ago at Oct 4 20:08 -
LOL well I'm glad I helped or I'm sorry for adding such trouble on you XD