Relationship breaks.?

do they like make any since?
im on one right now and scared to death!
im on one right now and scared to death!
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Waste of time, the guy only suggests them because he wants to get it from someone else, but does not want to ruin his chances of getting it with you. (In brief terms) Women do the same thing, but usually wuss out and get upset about it.
Either 100% or 0% there shouldn't be any in between in a proper relationship otherwise its not really a relationship its just an agreement. (Which is fine if thats what you are looking for, I know plenty of people happy with an agreement where no 100% commitment is ever expected) If you are looking for 100% and he is looking for "a break" then its probably not worth your while.
Either 100% or 0% there shouldn't be any in between in a proper relationship otherwise its not really a relationship its just an agreement. (Which is fine if thats what you are looking for, I know plenty of people happy with an agreement where no 100% commitment is ever expected) If you are looking for 100% and he is looking for "a break" then its probably not worth your while.
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thats happened with my past gf's they did that and it ended

crap man this sucks!!!
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but the girls ended

ya but the
guy changes and acts funny
guy changes and acts funny
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i didn't

well my guy is
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how weird is he acting like avoiding u
or ingnoring u
or ingnoring u

like hardly wanting to talk
like always bringing up this guy how is a friend
always getting mad over every little thing
i get scared sometimes to say things to him.!
like always bringing up this guy how is a friend
always getting mad over every little thing
i get scared sometimes to say things to him.!
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I can't help considering I don't remember anything like that happening to anyone
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Well not that I like making a habit of being nice to people on here, but my advice would be to sit down and talk about it once and for all. See whats going on, and if he wants to end it. If he does, don't get upset, just let it end, he's not worth it. You're young and you will do better than him, in fact you would probably be in another relationship in no time if you wanted to be.
If he does want to continue or didn't realize there was a problem then tell him to sort it out and start acting like a boyfriend or else YOU'LL end it. Take control in other words, give him what he wants if he wants to end it, as you're wasting each others time, but also get what you want if he doesn't want to end it, because otherwise you aren't happy and he is wasting your time.
Hope that helps!
If he does want to continue or didn't realize there was a problem then tell him to sort it out and start acting like a boyfriend or else YOU'LL end it. Take control in other words, give him what he wants if he wants to end it, as you're wasting each others time, but also get what you want if he doesn't want to end it, because otherwise you aren't happy and he is wasting your time.
Hope that helps!

You're young and you will do better than him, in fact you would probably be in another relationship in no time if you wanted to be.
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I think that if the person really loved you, he wouldnt need time to figure that out....
He should already know it....
Breaks, to me, are just a chance for the person to find something else. If it doesnt happen you know, they will have someone waiting for them @ home...
He should already know it....
Breaks, to me, are just a chance for the person to find something else. If it doesnt happen you know, they will have someone waiting for them @ home...

One question. Why do people post relationship threads?

Well I guess Listal is going to put councilors out of the job. lol :P

Lol
I know but if there are people who understand that others are actually reading this site, then of course people are gonna want the world to know their name....
Even if it is for sill things and for 5 seconds
I know but if there are people who understand that others are actually reading this site, then of course people are gonna want the world to know their name....
Even if it is for sill things and for 5 seconds

I don't know, for some people, counseling makes the reclude even more, so I suppose that's why some people ask for help on such important(ish) things
RB, being nice, Dang, it's either the Apocalypse, or he is in a REAL good mood, he's not one of the usual 'nice' types(No offense RB)
RB, being nice, Dang, it's either the Apocalypse, or he is in a REAL good mood, he's not one of the usual 'nice' types(No offense RB)

Yeah
Have you been throuogh that situation RB???
There would be no other reason for u being so nice
Have you been throuogh that situation RB???
There would be no other reason for u being so nice

Oh, good thought Dina, seeing as he has good advice for it, it must have happened to him... or someone close to him maybe, but yeah, RB probably gave the best advice, I doubt you can top that really
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Nope never been on a break, was just trying to help someone out for once. If you two are going to analyze every nice thing I say under a microscope I am not sure if I should continue.
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Perhaps we should start a relationship advice column exclusive to Listal: "Ask RB6K". ;p

Dear RB6K,
My girlfriend is a Hungarian gymnast. I have trouble keeping up with the sex because I am not as flexible as she is. But if I enroll myself into Yoga or male Gymnastics, I would probably turn gay. Any advice?
Sincerely,
Mr. Back Pain
My girlfriend is a Hungarian gymnast. I have trouble keeping up with the sex because I am not as flexible as she is. But if I enroll myself into Yoga or male Gymnastics, I would probably turn gay. Any advice?
Sincerely,
Mr. Back Pain
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Hehehe
Well Mr Back Pain,
My advice would be to purchase a set of winches and wires, and suspend your Hungarian friend from the Celine in a variety of new positions at a height convenient for you. On the gay front, quit wearing tank tops and listening to ABBA, and no one will doubt your sexuality again.
I'm not sure I could handle 1000 questions about death, suicide and the relationships of a 15 year old a day though :(
Well Mr Back Pain,
My advice would be to purchase a set of winches and wires, and suspend your Hungarian friend from the Celine in a variety of new positions at a height convenient for you. On the gay front, quit wearing tank tops and listening to ABBA, and no one will doubt your sexuality again.
I'm not sure I could handle 1000 questions about death, suicide and the relationships of a 15 year old a day though :(

I'm not sure I could handle 1000 questions about death, suicide and the relationships of a 15 year old a day though
You visit the Listal Groups daily. You already do. We all do...
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We don't have the power to get rid of it though ;) :P
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You shouldn't even have a partner at your age. Ignore the opposite gender completely and focus on Pythagoras' theorem instead. You'll thank me later!

Has anyone else noticed the kids that are more worried about love and sex at early age rather than school, are the ones that end up as single moms, and by the time they get to mid-20s, are dead ass broke, then all of a sudden they get the urge to go back to school to finish their high school certificate?
Why not just stick to the normal order --- first school, then family & love.
Why not just stick to the normal order --- first school, then family & love.
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If they did that Prelude, there'd never be Porn stars and hookers! Where would the world be then eh?!

wow guy i just ased one question
and now we are over
oh and Prelude for your information im a Honor student and i dont let guys get in the way of school!
and now we are over
oh and Prelude for your information im a Honor student and i dont let guys get in the way of school!

proud of you. keep it up. I was just making an observation that many girls in my town that become.. umm.. promiscuous at an early age... end up getting pregnant, see their useless teen boyfriend (who they all believed was the love-of-their-life) run for the hills (pretty much every guy under 20 seems to do this), then they become single moms, drop out of school, and try to get back in school 5 to 10 years later.

wow you just decribed my mom
and she is doing very well. she has a good job that pays very well.
so not everyone ends up the same...
and she is doing very well. she has a good job that pays very well.
so not everyone ends up the same...

and jesus christ, is THIS THING your boyfriend you're upset about??
you're joking, right? please tell me you're f'n joking... my god once my girls grow up, if they brought that THING into my house, first off I would feel I failed them as a parent because they grew up having ZERO class, and secondly I'd have to throw that THING back into the dumpster it crawled out of.
translation: you can do better. I mean, you can't possibly do any worse.
you're joking, right? please tell me you're f'n joking... my god once my girls grow up, if they brought that THING into my house, first off I would feel I failed them as a parent because they grew up having ZERO class, and secondly I'd have to throw that THING back into the dumpster it crawled out of.
translation: you can do better. I mean, you can't possibly do any worse.

and are you really 17? Why do you (and all your friends and you ex-BF) all look like they're 13 years old?

omg
im like seriously 17 god ppl
do ya wanna look me up!?
Geeze bananas!!!!
im like seriously 17 god ppl
do ya wanna look me up!?
Geeze bananas!!!!

I thought maybe they were early pictures, which is why i asked. I believe you if you say so, but if i were to guess just on pictures, i would've guessed 13 to 15 range.

no they are recent
grrrr....
grrrr....

so since the relationship is officially over, this thread can die now?

yes it can
