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RJ4 13 years, 7 months ago at Oct 9 16:57 -
I have a question. I just saw 50/50 with my "girlfriend", and I almost cried during one part. Now is more embarrassing to cry infront of your "girlfriend" or your buddies. I think both are embarrassing, but I think your buddies would make fun of you more, what do you guys think?
tommyv 13 years, 7 months ago at Oct 9 17:01 -
YOU WUSS!!!

Kidding! In front of your buddies=bad, girlfriend=ok.
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tersanay 13 years, 7 months ago at Oct 9 19:15 -
It depends on the situation. I've seen guys cry and unless you were a blubbering idiot it was probably fine. If the movie was touching or moving in some way and you teared up that just shows that you aren't afraid to show your emotions. She probably would have thought it was sweet. If there was snot though, that's not so good. But if I were a dude I wouldn't cry in front of my other guy friends unless there was a death because dudes tend to be more judgemental about it.
TeamDaiGurren 13 years, 7 months ago at Oct 9 19:31 -
Me and my boyfriend think watching a movie and crying about it brings us closer because we are sharing the same emotion towards something.
astro_man23 13 years, 7 months ago at Oct 10 15:24 -
But if I were a dude I wouldn't cry in front of my other guy friends unless there was a death because dudes tend to be more judgemental about it.

Only closet buttcrusaders will pick on you for tearing up, as long as you're not a blubbering idiot, like you say...or John Boehner.
Mackenzi 13 years, 7 months ago at Oct 10 19:51 -
I was listening to some morning talk radio about the most shallow reasons to break up with someone, and one woman called in and said she broke up with a guy because he cried during Armageddon.

Personally I think it's good that a guy isn't afraid to not be a robot or a jerkass and actually cry in front of people. I get that crying feels embarrassing, it does for girls a lot of times too. But it's a human thing to do, don't feel bad that it happens. Be glad you found a movie so touching!