18 Gay Stars & Who they are dating or dated!

Kristen Stewart has gone through a fair share of beautiful women following her separation from Robert Pattinson. She dated Alicia Cargile, a visual effects producer, as well as the French singer named Soko. As of 2016, Kristen has been linked to New Zealand-native Victoria’s Secret model, Stella Maxwell. Stella has been modeling for Victoria’s Secret since 2014 and became a Victoria’s Secret Angel in 2015. Maxwell and Stewart have been spotted together all around Los Angeles, and the two seem as happy as ever.

José Manuel Colón was the lucky man to take Orlando Cruz off the dating market for good. The two wed in a Central Park ceremony in 2013. The couple stays pretty quiet about their personal relationship, but we can only imagine how deeply they care about one another. Orlando Cruz had this to say on his Facebook page following his nuptials: “Giving thanks to my heavenly father for one more day of life and with [my] husband José Manuel in it.”

After dating for several years, Hugo Redwood and Denis O’Hare said ‘I do!’ in 2011. Like many other gay couples on this list, the pair adopted a son named Declan. Not much is known about Hugo Redwood besides his love for his husband. The family obviously lives a private life, and we respect that. Like any other loving people on this list, we hope for nothing but great things in their professional and personal endeavors. Their relationship can stand the test of time.

This super cute couple got engaged in April 2013. They dated just a year and already knew they found their soul mates. It is amazing to find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with and this beloved marriage continues to grow. Nate Berkus and Jeremiah Brent welcomed a daughter to their home via surrogate. Her name is Poppy Brent-Berkus and if she is anything like her two dads, she is certainly a doll with a bright future to boot.

Okay, we lied when we said Grant Shaffer and Alan Cumming have been dating this whole time. They actually have been married this whole time! Well, at least since January 7, 2007, and we are overjoyed for them! They only dated for two years before making it official. Hey, sometimes that is all takes before you really get to know someone. Not only is he the husband of actor Alan Cumming, but Grant Shaffer is also an accomplished graphic designer.

Actress and writer Stephanie Allynn and comedian Tig Notaro became mommies to twins. Tig Notaro posted on her Facebook page that,”I am beyond excited to announce that Mrs. Notaro and I are expecting TWINS in the coming months!!!!! Weeeeeeeee!!!!! When people ask what exciting new project I have on the horizon, my response has been and will continue to be to just maintain all the good that I have, because I truly have it all (+ 2).” Now, that is nothing to kid about!

Sara Gilbert previously dated Allison Adler, her TV producer, between the years 2001 and 2011. They even had two children together. Unfortunately, the pair decided to split. Lucky for Linda Perry, her and Sara Gilbert got engaged and married in 2014. The two also had a son the following year. Linda Perry has found success in her own right as a songwriter and producer. And yes, she is related to that other famous rock star with the last name Perry.

Since revealing her sexual orientation, Robin Roberts has been slightly more public about her relationship. Amber Laign is a professional massage therapist. The happy couple has been together since 2005. Not only are they a couple, but they are also an interracial relationship. Clearly, they are in love, but just in case nobody has told them lately: we support you and your love. It is hard to be who you are in a world that shuns those who are different.

George Takei and Brad Altman made groundbreaking news when they were the first gay couple to ever apply for a same-sex marriage license in West Hollywood. They applied in 2008 and were married soon thereafter on May 16, 2008. For decades, these gentle souls have gone through this journey called life together, and it has made us all the greater. Now the only thing left to say is live long and prosper. Or maybe, beam me up, Scotty.

Lily Tomlin and Jane Wagner have been together since the 1970s! After a lovely 42 years of being together, the loyal couple finally was able to get married in 2013. The two have even worked together on several projects, some of which include films like An Apology to Elephants or The Incredible Shrinking Woman. Audiences have long been appreciative of their acting abilities, but more importantly, their capacity to love each other so selflessly. The two are still happily married today.

With her busy schedule, it has to be hard for Ellen Page to find freedom for her own personal interests. Well, she clearly makes time for what and who is important, as we all do. With that being said, in 2015, the on-the-rise actress confirmed she was in a relationship with artist Samantha Thomas. The tall blonde is also very athletic and works as a professional surfer. This couple is breathtaking and we bet they turn heads whenever they go out.

Aside from being Jim Parson’s famous partner, Tood Spiewak has a successful career as an art director. The couple have emphasized to fans that they live a rather usual lifestyle despite fame and fortune. In fact, Jim Parson talked about their civil union with E! in 2013. He described their relationship as, “an act of love, coffee in the morning, going to work, washing the clothes, taking the dogs out—a regular life, boring love.” It doesn’t sound too bad to us.

Portia de Rossi met her future wife in 2004. Although she dated men in the past, she instantly fell in love with Ellen DeGeneres. After dating for several years, the two desired to wed. There was a ban on same-sex marriage at the time in the USA, but as soon as it lifted the couple became engaged. By 2008, they said ‘I do!’ and the rest is history. The happy family lives with a couple pets in their home in Beverly Hills. If you need a little relationship goal inspiration, check out these gals.

Despite having a humorous loving marriage on TV, Jesse Tyler Ferguson and Justin Mikita are hitched. They dated for two years and became engaged in 2012. Just a year later, the two took the big jump and said ‘I do!’ Justin Mikita is a very successful lawyer and the happy couple even started their own not-for-profit charity. It is called ‘Tie The Knot’ and as the name suggests they help raise money in support of same-sex marriages throughout the entire country.

This couple started dating in 2011, and three years later they exchanged vows in holy matrimony. The entire ceremony was filmed and aired as an E! Special. Check out Lance Loves Michael: The Lance Bass Wedding. This was the first same-sex marriage to be broadcasted on national television. The two proudly shared their wedding ceremony for the whole world to see. After spending so many years hiding his personal life from the public, sharing his wedding was a refreshing change for Bass.

Despite the magazine’s attempt to discredit Cara Delevingne’s choice in partners, she openly started dating Annie Clark in 2015. There is some confusion surrounding the name St. Vincent versus Annie Clark, however, it should be noted that “St. Vincent” is Annie’s her stage name. Annie Clark is a musician whose music is on the rise. The Tulsa, Oklahoma native and the Victoria Secret model enjoyed each other company until they split up in 2016 due to the long distance between them causing strain on the relationship.

David Burka and Neil Patrick Harris tied the knot in 2014 after the Marriage Equality Act was passed. None other than the great Sir Elton John performed at their wedding, which was undeniably an incredible celebration. Since having twins via a surrogate, the happy family always dresses up in elaborate holiday outfits – from adorable Easter photos to larger-than-life Halloween pictures. We cannot wait to see more great things come from this loving family, which come through mostly Instagram posts.

To many people’s surprise, Jodie Foster started dating Alexandra Hedison, who is a successful actress and esteemed photographer in her own right. The beautiful couple made things official in 2014 when they got married. As we can see from here, everything is so far, so good, for these newlyweds. Hopefully after the honeymoon phase is over, these two continue to stay blessed with happiness. Jodie Foster’s two sons are much older by now, and we certainly wish the family the best.