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Rank : 178
Posted : 2 years, 10 months ago at Oct 9 17:34 -
I have a question for everyone that is in a "relationship" Do you guys label each other? Like I am with a girl now, but I dont like to label things because I think it will just put us under pressure to be the perfect couple, and I just want us to be happy together. You know what I am getting at. I also dont want people bugging us too, I mean I hope you know what I am trying to say.
Rank : 12454
Posted : 2 years, 3 months ago at May 14 9:36 -
Ok I havent really been in a OFFICIAL relationship but ill tell you this many a time its the girl who likes labelling but its not that important to label your relationship. Personally saying your "In a relationship" is itself alot... and most of the time it does put alot of pressure on you by being the PERFECT COUPLE...

So I think it's just better off by not giving eachother the names can get REALLY VERY WEIRD sometimes...honey,sweetheart and all that is general...but otherwise...nah

It can get as weird as
"WonWon" When Ren was in a reltionship with Lavender... :D
Rank : 461
Posted : 2 years, 3 months ago at May 14 15:40 -
I "dated" a guy for a few months and while we where pretty obviously together, I had no idea how serious he thought we where. I get that he probably wanted to avoid the label thing as well, but with the nature of how we got together I was always wondering, is this a monogamous thing? Is this a serious relationship? Should I be trying to move forward or is it just casual to him?
Eventually we just sort of drifted apart and I was wondering if it was over for quite a while.

So while I don't think "labeling" is necessary it's nice to know sometimes, just what the relationship actually is.